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Not gonna change who I am

This is not for people that have been my friends on here for awhile this is for some new people who followed me from communities and added me that I thought were friends that I have now deleted. This is a public entry just so those people know.

I well not stop being who I am. If you followed me from a comm and did not like what I was discussing then that is to bad. I am sorry if you did not like the topic or if it made you uncomfortable then maybe next time you should read what it is about before you jump ahead and yell at other people. Another thing I well not make a sock account...whatever the hell that is I never heard of that. This is my journal and I refuse to make more than one just to hide something. If you look at my interest and see something you do not like that is not my problem do not shame me at all. Yes I read fanfiction and yes it my seem odd to other people but do not tell me how to act or what to do. I have had enough people tell me I am odd and I don't need it form someone who thinks they are helping me, you are not god and I really don't give a damn.

Also please stop leaving me hateful messages it is not being read and I am just blocking you it is getting old and I really do not give a damn what you have to say. I do what I do watch what I watch read what I read and if you think it is gross find it odd or just something you don't like then don't friend me. Also please don't follow me from other comms to voice your opinion because I really don't care. It was a discussion where people should not be shamed.

This is my journal I don't hide from my friends even online ones. I am open and honest and if you don' understand that it is not my problem. I refuse to be told how gross I am. I use my journal for everything my communities, my friends and my fandom's. Like I said before don't like it that is to damn bad. So please just go away just because you can hide behind your name does not make you a better person. Thank you for your time now please just leave me alone. 

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robvansam
Apr. 23rd, 2013 02:11 am (UTC)
Phew, glad I didn't get deleted :)

Good lord sounds like some people are just so damn immature and will never grow up. You don't need people around like that.
fille_dombre
Apr. 23rd, 2013 02:24 am (UTC)
lol nope not you.

I have actually meet some really great people on here but sometimes a few slip through that try to act like friends and then get upset when they don't agree with something I said and I understand not everyone is going to but when you try to push certain things on me I hate that. It gets old and I hate dealing with people like that.
robvansam
Apr. 23rd, 2013 02:44 am (UTC)
yay :)

Yeah there are a few bad apples every once in awhile. I had one person that deleted me because she posted something about kids and I simply said "that's why I don't want any" and she went off on me and then deleted me. WTF. Oh well. I've had very few instances like that.
fille_dombre
Apr. 23rd, 2013 09:11 pm (UTC)
this is like maybe the second time I had to deal with this normally I never have people act like this. Normally people give up when you block them but then they get on other accounts and keep at it. Like this one. This is the first time I had been followed form other communities normally I never have problems.

There is always someone online who has to act nuts. Wow all because you said one thing huh? that is a little messed up.
robvansam
Apr. 24th, 2013 12:29 am (UTC)
Yeah all from something as innocent as that. Oh well.

And I had someone else delete me because I enjoy running comment standings every month. I do it for fun and make it as entertaining as possible. This was the first time someone didn't enjoy them and deleted me because of it.
fille_dombre
Apr. 24th, 2013 02:07 am (UTC)
what are comment standings?

Wow its your journal you can post what you want.
robvansam
Apr. 24th, 2013 02:32 am (UTC)
Comment standings show you how many comments you've made in someone's journal. They're quite fun and I try to make them as interactive and entertaining as possible. You'll see by the end of the month as that's when I usually run them. If you want a sneak peak you can check out my posts towards the end of last month. That's when I ran my last standings.
fille_dombre
Apr. 24th, 2013 02:42 am (UTC)
ok yes I know what you are talking about now someone else has done this on there journal but they call it something different. I have seen other people get mad about that on other journals so you are not the only one. I dont mind them I think it is interesting to see how much you comment.
robvansam
Apr. 24th, 2013 02:54 am (UTC)
I do them for fun. Even though it's competitive, it's also fun to look at how someone does each month. Most people just post the bar graph, but I do a little more detail to make it more interesting :)
wingcharm86
Apr. 23rd, 2013 01:28 pm (UTC)
whoa! i didnt know that this kind of thing happens in LJ too.
fille_dombre
Apr. 23rd, 2013 09:11 pm (UTC)
It is kinda horrible that people just don't know how to drop things. But yeah they are everywhere
harmlessfantasy
Apr. 24th, 2013 07:17 pm (UTC)
OMFG I'm so sorry you've had to go through this! *hugs*

Good on you for sticking up for yourself and sticking to your principles. I wish that I had the balls to be me on one account, but for me it's not possible.

I'm glad to see you being so open. You're right, your interests are listed but people don't read properly. Stick with the people who like you for you, and can avoid talking about different opinions. xxx
fille_dombre
Apr. 24th, 2013 09:42 pm (UTC)
I had honestly never had someone shame me for liking fan fiction or a certain fic or a topic. I had stayed in the dark for long like I always just read and never commented because I was always afraid of this but about a year or two ago I finally decided it could not hurt that there are also people like me. I have never had any problems in till now.


well I think it is a little different for you. I don't write I wish I could but I don't I think if I wrote I might have another account. But honestly I never thought of having another account I just figured people would see it in my interest and avoid me but someone always has to step in and say something
harmlessfantasy
Apr. 25th, 2013 04:02 pm (UTC)
I'm a little surprised that someone had a go at you as a reader. You're right, as a writer it's slightly different - we're kind of higher profile than readers, I guess. I'm sure there's a hell of a lot of people out there who read stuff but don't comment... if they comment, it's all there for people to see.

Do you mind me asking what the topic was? *curious*
fille_dombre
Apr. 25th, 2013 10:47 pm (UTC)
I agree you guys are more higher up you guys have to deal with what you write and if people don't like it I can imagine all the hell you guys get. I used to never comment or get in discussions because I was worried people would get upset and something like this would happen.

I was on a another community we were talking about underage and incest. As you can tell by the topic of course people are going to act all high and mighty. I ended up leaving that one after this. I think I am just going to stick to the new community the topic one. I like that place I feel safe there.
harmlessfantasy
Apr. 30th, 2013 12:39 pm (UTC)
As a writer of subjects that some people will take umbridge with, you (we) have to be aware of the fact that it can happen. It doesn't make it easier to handle, no-one likes being hated, but the fact is some people don't know when to NOT click. As far as I'm concerned, if you see warnings or a summary that's not to your taste, then don't fucking read!!! :/

It's unfair that people get driven out of comms because of other people. I think it's best to stick with people you feel comfortable with. YOLO and all that! :)
fille_dombre
Apr. 30th, 2013 04:07 pm (UTC)
I agree when I see something that I know is going to bother me then I just skip past it the same with discussion's if it it a topic I know that is going to bother me I just dont worry about it. I feel bad for the authors like you. I have read some amazing stuff and people just turn around and say horrible stuff I feel so bad.

I never shame other people because I know what it feels like to feel odd if you like something and people don't understand. I rely on comms and friends from the fandom's to make me feel less odd.
twotopcats
Apr. 28th, 2013 09:39 pm (UTC)
Gosh, sounds like you've been getting some flack. I haven't read any of your entries yet but smells like troll to me if they are targeting you for no reason! And I don't understand why someone would give jip over you reading. I adore reading and writing. I used to read and publish on fanfiction. I quite enjoyed slash which others did not but, hey, we all have different tastes. You were wise to delete and block. Some people, sadly, like to be a royal pain in the bottom.
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